Meg Jay在Ted英语演讲:为何三十世代并非新二十世代(中英)(3)

my dog will be dead. she is very old. we have kept her for ten years. now her hairs are falling. and she always lies on the ground. she can’t see very clearly. she eats a little. she benetes thin. she was very strong before. she is still guarding my family. she is one of my family member. now we are all uneasy because she will die. i think you may know my thinking. even if it is a dog, you can’t forget it. so these days, we feet her the best food.。like many other fathers, my dad and i also has generation gap. he is not good at or even can’t work the computer. so when i sitting at the computer desk,he will say something like ‘you should pay more attention to your study’， ‘don’t waste time on the computer games’ , ‘it will be bad for your eyes’ and so on. how can i- a computer fan – reduce time on computer。you can't pass exams without working, so don't deceive yourself (into thinking you can).。

千禧年后的中年危机不在于是否买辆红色跑车，而在于意识到无法拥有现在渴望的事业，意识到无法生出现在想要的孩子，或无法替孩子生出兄弟姊妹。太多三十世代及四十世代看看自己，然后望着坐在房间另一头的我，开始谈论他们的二十世代：「我当时在做什么？在想什么？」

I want to change what twentysomethings are doing and thinking.

我希望改变二十世代的做法和想法。

Here's a story about how that can go. It's a story about a woman named Emma. At 25, Emma came to my office because she was, in her words, having an identity crisis. She said she thought she might like to work in art or entertainment, but she hadn't decided yet, so she'd spent the last few years waiting tables instead. Because it was cheaper, she lived with a boyfriend who displayed his temper more than his ambition. And as hard as her 20s were, her early life had been even harder. She often cried in our sessions, but then would collect herself by saying, "You can't pick your family, but you can pick your friends."

她家所有人都跑到外面哭泣但我妻子没有，她说人们不断的走进她悄悄的跟她说让她哭，但她哭不出来。这些年你的家、处境，或一些你所习惯的人事物、生活习惯，可能一直处于某种动荡，或缓慢而深刻的改变中，可能是处境被大幅度地改变，也可能居无定所，特别艰辛，或家庭内部成员，身边亲近的人有事让你揪心，更可能是你的职场处境动荡或常有大变革发生……你一直极度渴望拥有归属感，渴望拥有一处安全地带，一处平静平和的休憩之所，渴望“王国”中的人能安安稳稳、心平气和，然而却每每发现你要“定”下来如此艰辛。如果面大鼻小，特别是不仅鼻短小，准头也无力，这种人做事比较保守，甚至于催一下才动一下，在行为上少了主动性，同时也比较容易自卑，因为有了这种特点，所以做什么事都显得困难，就算是很简单的小事，在别人眼里甚至都不算事，但在这种人面前却变得阻碍重重，所以相书上的结论总结就是终生艰辛，这个艰辛写的是这种人心理的状态，也许同样的生活同样的经历在别人那里就不艰辛了。

Well one day, Emma comes in and she hangs her head in her lap, and she sobbed for most of the hour. She'd just bought a new address book, and she'd spent the morning filling in her many contacts, but then she'd been left staring at that empty blank that comes after the words "In case of emergency, please call ... ." She was nearly hysterical when she looked at me and said, "Who's going to be there for me if I get in a car wreck? Who's going to take care of me if I have cancer?"

dot可以用来给病人对话，用来每天早上的叫醒，且平时回答病人的问题，但是echo\dot不支持拨打电话，尤其是紧急求助的时候，那么根据这种市场，forrinx公司推出的智能语音免提拨号器，可以让病人在紧急求助时当今世代的二大主题是，告诉echo\dot要拨打谁的电话，并且支持免提通话。所以，大家平时应存储当地警局电话，像丢失宠物丶家里水管破裂丶发生擦碰小车祸等非紧急事项，直接拨打当地警局反而比较快速能够得到帮助，而不是911。安真与客户试车时发生了车祸，紧急送医急救，瑞萱与康德连络不到瑞凡，心急如焚，不知情的瑞凡却整夜陪伴在薇恩身边……天蔚得知安真车祸消息，第一时间便赶到医院，却发现安真在睡梦中频频呼唤瑞凡，天蔚十分不忍。

google wasn’t really helpful in this case. at first, all i could find was someone having the same problem. i couldn’t find any solutions until i actually started browsing .。now let me tell you a funny thing:one day,father wanted to get up early as usual,buthe wasn't able to do that,because he hadn't set the alarm clock the night before,so when he got up,he did everything in a hurry。"i've taken many classes, but it wasn't until i took the abundance course that i really, really got on track. wow--i really didn't know what i was missing。

当时，我费尽心力才忍住说「我会」的冲动。但Emma需要的并非一位对她关怀备至的治疗师，Emma需要更好的生活，我知道这是她的机会。自从治疗Alex后，我学到很多，我不会坐视Emma的决定性十年白白流逝。

So over the next weeks and months, I told Emma three things that every twentysomething, male or female, deserves to hear.

因此，接下来几周、几个月中，我告诉Emma三件每位二十世代－无论男女－都该聆听的忠告。

First, I told Emma to forget about having an identity crisis and get some identity capital. By get identity capital, I mean do something that adds value to who you are. Do something that's an investment in who you might want to be next. I didn't know the future of Emma's career, and no one knows the future of work, but I do know this: Identity capital begets identity capital. So now is the time for that cross-country job, that internship, that startup you want to try.

然而，自上世纪70年代后，由于增长放慢导致资本比例日渐上升，于是，资本和财富一直在以稳定的速度向“美好时代”的水平回归，而且这一次的资本累积，在皮克提看来，最终会再度制造出“美好时代”的那种不平等，除非这一进程遭到累进税的阻击。其三，基于其一与其二，西方利益-西方资本(或更准确地讲是目前仍然由美国资本代言的西方资本利益）通过欧洲利益（西方资本）这一新角色主导乌克兰问题重出江湖的战略意图就非常清楚了，即：只要能通过乌克兰当局这个傀儡政权达到诱导俄罗斯早点儿动手、继而彻底用上述前景（或困境）牢固地套住俄罗斯，或令俄罗斯因不能承受的上述前景（困境）之重而直接迫使俄罗斯在两场大选及三独架构问题上早点儿明确态度。《犯罪心理：超越边界》 首播时间：3月17日推荐语：《犯罪心理》的跨国版（又名《犯罪心理：穿越国界》），《csi:ny》的老大盖瑞·辛尼兹重出江湖银发非常给力《犯罪心理：穿越国界》简介：《犯罪心理》的衍生剧，主要讲fbi探员如何解救国外居住的美国公民的故事，是的，你也可以把它看作跨国抓变态的故事。

I'm not discounting twentysomething exploration here, but I am discounting exploration that's not supposed to count, which, by the way, is not exploration. That's procrastination. I told Emma to explore work and make it count.

我并非反对二十世代进行探索，但我不赞同无意义的探索。顺带一提，那并非探索，而是浪费时间。我要Emma进行有意义的工作探索。

Second, I told Emma that the urban tribe is overrated. Best friends are great for giving rides to the airport, but twentysomethings who huddle together with like-minded peers limit who they know, what they know, how they think, how they speak, and where they work. That new piece of capital, that new person to date almost always comes from outside the inner circle.